10 WAYS TO SPICE UP YOUR LOVE LIFE.
It’s so endearing that you are taking our time to look for exceptional ways to fuel your love life. And I promise you this article will give you all that you search.
So, yes, love is work. No love affair comes out of the package, perfect. No no no! You build to perfection. You plant little seeds that will soon grow into a tree. You learn to take out time to study your partner, their likes and dislikes, then work at complimenting them.
These are 10 amazing ways to spice your love life.
1. PLAN A ROMANTIC DINNER AT HOME
Romantic dinners mustn’t always be at a seven star restaurant. It could be at home but design home with the vigor and enthusiasm. Fix lighting designs. Hang banners. Do an enlarged, beautiful photo of your partner, display it by the table. Prepare the meal yourself. Set the table. Then, finally dress up like you are heading out but the out is going to be your dinner room.
Maybe while eating and staring at each other’s eyes, play a pretense game. Act like you are just meeting for the first time. You two could play along. Laugh along and have fun while it lasts.
One thing is guaranteed, you will find that by the end of the night, you must have laughed so hard and had so much fun.
2. GIVE YOUR PARTNER A LOVE JAR.
Love jar is a beautiful glass jar containing tiny pieces of love notes. These hand written tiny notes contains list of things you love about your partner.
I know this may be hard to do especially if your partner is always getting on your nerves. You may tend to forget the reason why you fell in love in the first place.
Still, look beyond all that and search deeper. Remember the first time you met. Remember the thrill. Remember the fun you’ve had. Remember the good times. The sacrifices. The laughter.
Remember all the good things and begin to write the amazing qualities of your partner one by one and don’t stop till it reaches 50.
Then, fold them up in a jar and give to your partner.
It will bring tears to their eyes… I guarantee that.
3. GET A MATCHING ATTIRE FOR YOU TWO.
A couple that slays together, stays together. So, get to it! Buy a matching pair of outfit. Rock it! There is nothing that unifies a relationship like the ohhhhhhhs and ahhhhhhs the public gives you when you two walk by slaying in a matching outfit!
This is the best time for that vacation. Stop pushing it farther. Vacations are healthy for a relationship. And you must not rob a bank to have one. Just do something small. Maybe a village. A small city. Anything small will serve, it is not the high rising building or the A-class hotels that brings joy in a vacation, it’s the love in your hearts.
Make your worlds what you want it to be.
5. ASK QUESTIONS THAT MATTER.
Nothing gladdens your partner’s heart like knowing that you care about his/her growth.
So, take out one cool evening, after a good dinner. Sit by a garden, drink some smoothies and have a heart to heart conversation.
Ask him/her about their life dreams.
Ask about their purpose.
Ask if they like where they are now.
Encourage him/her to speak the truth.
Ask how they can get better
Ask how you can be of help.
I don’t know about you, but nothing touches my heart like a partner that wants to help me reach my purpose.
Oh… Sweet old massage. For those who have been in a long term relationship or marriage. We tend to forget massage. It’s all about sex, work and any other thing in between.
When was the last time you gave your partner a long, sweet massage? Caressing their napes, your fingers glide across the shoulders to the back down to their feet.
If you want to spice your love life, an hour long massage is a great way to start.
7. GO ON A SEX FAST.
You have heard water fast, religious fast but I’m sure, you haven’t heard sex fast. Lolz. Sex fast is amazing. It’s usually recommended for married couple.
Sex tends to be monotonous when repeated over and over again.
Go on a sex fast. One week! Two weeks or even a month. Then, watch your bodies jump at each other when you finally get down.
Uunnnghh! It’s getting hot in here already.
8. SURPRISE THEM
Who doesn’t like surprises? Send the flowers to his workplace. Drop a sexy note in her bag. Visit them when they are not expecting. Do little acts of surprise that will jiggle their hearts.
Surprises makes heart grow fonder.
9. BECOME A BETTER YOU
Everyone has a dream man or a dream woman. Nothing is as depressing as going below our initial expectation. Be the woman of his dreams. Be the man of her dreams. Build yourself. Build your career. Be a leader in your field. Nothing thrills your partner like a partner he or she is proud of!
Yes, we have been wronged once or twice. It hurts, I know. So, to spice up your love life, you could write your partner a forgiveness letter. Not an email. Not a text message. A letter. Hand written.
Tell him/ her you’ve forgiven him/her. Tell him you want him to be happy. Tell him you really do care about him. Don’t be afraid to show your love. Pour it out and as you write, you let your pains fly away.
I wish you a love that never fades.
Did you enjoy this article? Which of these would you try out?
Written by Chioma Ngaikedi.
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